COSTS AND BENEFITS OF INFORMAL CARE GIVING 6
Costsand Benefits of Informal Care giving
Costsof InformalCare giving
Informalcare giving is that vital support that is given to older people dueto their delicate physical, mental, cognitive and health conditions.Nevertheless, there are costs that are associated with these doingsin informal care. The first cost is the caregiver burden that ismainly experienced by the family members giving the care. Habitually,most caregivers spend more and long hours offering this kind of carethat in many instances results in emotional distress (Lecture 5A,2015). This happens when dealing with aging parents. The dailyretrogressive health condition adds mental distress to the caregiver. The caregiver is in effect, tasked with financial obligationsthat increase as well as the depression rate (Wilson, 2015).
Thesecond cost linked to informal care giving is the objective burden.The physical and emotional needs of the elderly person oftenincrease. This requires increased attention from the caregiver. It iscommon for the caregivers to experience occasional disruptions fromtheir daily tasks. These disruptions may be taking care of theelderly or sick person’s legal obligations as well as handling thefinancial matters (Lecture 5A, 2015). It is a stressful endeavor thatincludes working with health insurance companies that may beuncooperative or reluctant. This is in pursuit of fulfilling thefinancial obligations of the elderly individuals, who may not be in ahealthy position to handle such matters on their own.
Finallythe third major cost incurred by the caregiver is the subjectiveburden (Lecture 5A, 2015). This is usually the emotional well beingof the caregiver. This emotional grief is eminent, especially whenthe elderly or sick people’s health status indicates a negativedeterioration progress. The family caregivers usually come to therealities and possibilities of an impending death. As a result, somemay experience anger or frustrations because their efforts may seemfutile.
TheBenefits of Informal Care giving
Onthe other hand informal care giving has immense benefits to thepeople who are concerned. The first major benefit is the increasedcloseness between the people (Lecture 5A, 2015). This is triggered bythe fact that they are sharing the same pain and are hoping for thesame positive outcomes. When families experience shared pain,individual psychological well being is improved irrespective of theoutcome. New relationships and bonds are likely to be forged duringthese difficult moments. These relationships usually last for alifetime where the family members show their closeness and will oftenprobably share all their future joys and pain.
Inaddition to that, there is the unifying aspect of informal caregiving among the family members. The family members often feel unitedbecause they share the same course and pain (Wilson, 2012). Empathyis usually eminently when dealing with a close family member. In thiscontext, the family often delegates tasks between themselves toensure that every family member fully participates. This sense offeeling is usually very important to ensure that the family or peopleconcerned would share the grief or pain of loss. That unity, usuallyexists for very long periods of time and is habitually expressed inother areas of their lives.
Caregiving is a morally and ethically accepted value in the society. Inthis regard, engaging in this selfless act makes a person to have asense of pride and fulfillment (Lecture 5A, 2015). It is a worth andsatisfying feeling to know that one engaged and fully participated inthe recovering process of a loved one. The benefit of doing the rightthing often increases the confidence levels of individuals concerned.Those rewards still remain even if the loved one passes away or thehealth condition deteriorates. It is a human value that is respectedin the cultural settings. This benefit usually helps a person toaccept death as an inevitable part of life.
TheCosts and Benefits as seen in “Complaints of a Dutiful Daughter”
Anumber of costs that are evident in Hoffmann’s documentarycomplaints of the dutiful daughter Hoffmann experienced grief whenher mother could not recognize her. The Alzheimer disease affectedher mother to lose her cognitive abilities. She acknowledges the factthat the condition was a huge personal blow. This is a form ofsubjective cost that mostly involves the emotional well being of thecaregiver. It is important to note her love and dedication to hermother is demonstrated through her continued support. It is hard towitness her mother losing her cognitive abilities to a level ofcompletely forgetting her own personal marriage life and herchildren. In fact the author says the frustrations those veryfrustrations triggered her to video tape her mother’s strangebehaviors.
MoreoverHoffmann endured emotional distress of her mother’s daily strugglewith age and Alzheimer disease. The type of cost experienced in thiscontext is the caregiver burden. She is expected to shoulder all hermother’s burden. This is so precisely because her mother is nolonger in a position to manage her affairs on her own. Therefore, alllegal, financial and other forms of obligations are felt by thedaughter. Family is the most centralized and effective form of caregiving that guarantees reliability. Socially the culturalexpectations, anticipate the daughter to bear the entire burden.
Converselythe daughter experiences immense delight and the act of care givingseems to be rewarding. Although her mother’s condition isretrogressive and irreversible, she presents a proud and strongcharacter. Hoffmann explained that she felt closer to her mother thanever before. This is a major benefit that is usually prominentbetween a caregiver and a loved one. Hoffmann goes further to presenthome videos and photographs of a manifestation of a heartfelt andintimate relationship. This bond is not based on a shared past orexperiences, but on enduring love. The closing monologue of Hoffmannindicates that her mother lives in the moment.
Hoffmann,D. (2015). Film, Deborah Hoffmann film 1994, United States
Lecture5A, 2015, Lecture 5A InformalCaregiving and Loss and Grief in Later Life.Class Notes, 2015 Pearson Education Inc. 10/28/2015.
Lecture5B, 2015, Lecture 5A InformalCaregiving and Loss and Grief in Later Life.Class Notes, 2015 Person Education Inc. 10/28/2015.
WilsonB.C. (2012). Caringfor older people. A shared approach. Manchester.SAGE Publishers